Dear Marvin,We are about four months away from our wedding date and as I add up the costs, I realize we're continuing to go over budget! I feel like all of the things we're spending money on are important. My parents and in-laws gave me a specific budget to start with, but some of the things we are spending additional money on are things they want. I'm worried that when it comes to paying all these vendors, I won't be able to get everyone to come through! Help!
Signed-
Penniless & In Love
Dear Penniless,
It's great to have the support of family and in-laws on your Big Day. While their intentions start out straightforward and fiscally sensible, sometimes emotions and opinions trump rational. They may not realize how they're affecting the wedding day, financially and emotionally. The best thing to do is sit down and make a list of all the things you have planned for your wedding day. From that list, you and your fiance need to discuss what is essential to make your wedding day special. Ask the same task of your parents and in-laws and then start cutting out, or minimalizing, the unnecessary items. Some of these items, you could cut down costs on by doing some of the labor yourselves. This is where the families' support will kick in to high gear! Don't be afraid to speak up or ask for help; they will appreciate your prudence.
It's great to have the support of family and in-laws on your Big Day. While their intentions start out straightforward and fiscally sensible, sometimes emotions and opinions trump rational. They may not realize how they're affecting the wedding day, financially and emotionally. The best thing to do is sit down and make a list of all the things you have planned for your wedding day. From that list, you and your fiance need to discuss what is essential to make your wedding day special. Ask the same task of your parents and in-laws and then start cutting out, or minimalizing, the unnecessary items. Some of these items, you could cut down costs on by doing some of the labor yourselves. This is where the families' support will kick in to high gear! Don't be afraid to speak up or ask for help; they will appreciate your prudence.
Good Luck,
Marvin
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1 comment:
Oh Penniless! Money is such a hard thing! Definetely figure out exactly how much you are getting and then work from there! Good luck!
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