Ask for help!

All of us brides know that planning a wedding is an extraordinary undertaking…and help is always in demand. Don’t be afraid to ask for assistance. While planning my wedding, I asked my mother to make table runners out of a material that I had selected. The runners turned out beautiful! Not only did we receive several compliments on our décor, but we were able to gift mementos from our wedding to family and friends after the ceremony. We even kept a few for our home!

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Perhaps you don’t know anyone who can sew. Do you have someone close to you that is a skilled baker? If so, ask them to design a cookie (shortbread is both delicious and durable) that follows the theme and/or colors of your wedding. You can use the cookies as your favors!

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If you don’t feel comfortable requesting something hand made from a member of your wedding support group, you can still ask for help. By delegating responsibilities to those willing to lend a hand, you can ease the pressure you are feeling while including people close to you. Ask a family member or good friend to oversee the guest book table. Your guests will feel welcome as soon as they arrive and will appreciate the personal touch.