So you made it through the stress of the planning and the big day and now you are home. And the reality has set in. Oh yes you love him but if he leaves his dirty socks on top of the coffee table one more time he is going to be VERY sorry. So what do you do? Scream? Ignore him? Kick him to the couch? It can be tempting to do all of these things but just remember: treat him how you would him to treat you. When it comes to "fighting" follow these few rules. 1) No name calling - don't call each other anything you would call each when you are NOT mad. You can't take those words back. 2) Pick your battles. Is it really worth starting a fight over the fact that he leaves the newspaper laying out all day? Probably not. Save your battles for the big stuff. 3) Don't go to bed mad. EVER. It's not worth it. You sleep terribly and you wake up mad. That's no fun! Work it out before you turn out the lights.Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists
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This is so important. Just remember that what may be a life and death situation right now probably won't be once you cool down. Don't do or say something that you may regret.
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