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Friday, February 29, 2008

Trend - Color, color, color!

Color, color, color! Monochromatic or mixed color -- either combination is hot! Bright colors are in. Brides are moving away from wedding whites and becoming adventurous and bold with color.

Photo courtesy of Allison Stahl Photography

Tip - Check for Hidden Fees

Don’t get caught by hidden fees!
Make sure you ask what is included when you get a quote from your limousine vendor.

Many brides have been taken aback when they ask for a ‘complete quote’, only to find out that extra fees and gratuity have not been included. Beware of any company charging tax – there is no sales tax on limousine service in the state of California.

Tip provided by Luxury Limousines
Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

Taking a Leap on Leap Day--"The Torch"

We wanted to send a Leap Day Congratulations to our newest addition to the B2B team, "The Torch". Carissa and Michael are getting married today in Placerville followed by a dream honeymoon in Greece. Congratulations to you both. We can't wait for the pics and stories on the blog for all to share.

We also wanted to give a shout out to their photographer, Beth Baugher of True Love Photo.
Lora Ward of A Day to Remember has been on hand as Carissa's friend and coordination sounding board leading up to the day. Check out her Spotlight On this week at Dynamite Weddings .

Congratulations Carissa and Michael on your Leap Day wedding! Check back for a formal introduction of "The Torch" upon her return.

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Trend - Showcase the Sweets

Remember the cake table! Layer in different levels, adding textures of fabric and more color all make for a grand presentation of your signature dessert. No longer just for the “cut the cake” photo but a presentation all it’s own. Rent extra plush fabrics to match the richness and bold color of your cake… Flowers between the cake layers, blown glass stands, beads and beautiful crystals all add the sparkle and shine your cake deserves!

Trend provided by Slip of Elegance Chaircovers
Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

Tip - eSessions A Must

Engagement Sessions are a MUST! - When choosing a photographer check to see if their packages include an engagement session (or eSession as I like to call them). An engagement session really allows you and your fiancé to build a rapport with your photographer that is vitally important come your big day. You get to see the way your photographer works, and your photographer gets to see how you handle being photographed. eSessions are also a time for your photographer to learn about you as a couple and witness your physical chemistry as well as how you emotionally connect to each other. eSessions also provide beautiful pictures of you as a couple in a more real world setting than your wedding day which is a great way to preserve how you interact on a normal day.

Plus, who doesn’t love an awesome picture with their sweetie?

Tip provided by Sarah Maren Photography
Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

Our Furry Bundle of Joy


After 15 ½ months of marriage, we welcomed our first little one into our lives. We got a kitten! It’s a really big thing for us, since we have pretty much had zero responsibility for anything since getting married. Yes, we have jobs and bills, but as for responsibility for another life… this is our big moment. His name is Jack and he is perfection. When he is sleepy, he purrs and cuddles. When he is awake, he hops around the place like a little "Jack"rabbit. Part of me wonders why we waited this long to get a pet. He brings so much joy and happiness to our lives. Who could resist that face?

Dusting-off Date Night

Picture: Out to dinner at Kobe in Palm Springs

When you were a kid there was pizza night. As a teenager, there was staying over at your BFF’s night. In college it was more like girl’s night out or wow-that-guy’s-super-hot night. The men had (ok, let’s be honest here, have) game night. And fight night. And then game night. Again. But most times, once you're married all your nights can have a way of running together into one continuous “need-to-get-some-sleep-because-I got-to-get-up early-for-work” night. When it’s not that, it’s laundry night, grocery night, or in-laws are coming over this weekend and I need to clean night. So whatever happened to date night?

Nothing. It’s still there…it’s just hidden under a pile of clothes. All you and hubby need to do is pick it up, dust it off (leave the clothes, trust me, they’ll be there when you get back) and take it out on the town.

My hub’s and I make an effort to have date night at least once a week…sometimes it’s a fancy Friday night date at the hottest restaurant. Other times it’s a Saturday miniature golf duel to the death. When we're feeling especially blessed by the time gods, we'll make a whole weekend out of it. However, more often than we like, life gets super hectic (as the little bugger tends to do) and it’s a Wednesday night homemade meal followed by a movie and popcorn. (But it's never Tuesday night, because that's his playing-basketball-with-the-boys-night...and my night to watch all my tivoed guilty pleasure girl shows that I will DENY, DENY, DENY I have ever seen, should anyone ask!)

Making time for each other helps me remember why I wanted to marry the man in the first place: he is a lot of fun, and my best friend. It’s like the good old days, only now I get to have “staying over at your BFF’s night” every night. Lucky, lucky girl.

90 Whole Days

Whew! We made it. A whole 90 days of married bliss.

The happiest moment of my life courtesy of The Memory Journalists.

I remember the above moment so clearly. I remember thinking, "Wow. We did. I did it. I'm married to the man I love." It was such a clear moment. A moment of happiness, disbelief, relief, excitedness and pure love. I made myself concentrate so much when we said our vows. I didn't want to miss a word. But it all happened so fast and suddenly there we were walking down the aisle and on the road of our married journey.

So happy anniversary Hubby! The last three months have been full of love, laughter and compromise! But I wouldn't have missed a second and I can't wait for the next 90 years!

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Trend - Animal Prints Are In!

The big color trend last year was chocolate brown and pink. This year, brides are making a statement with animal prints. The ultimate classic in fashion is now hitting the bridal bouquets -- imagine chocolate cosmos wrapped in a leopard ribbon or black calla lilies with a zebra print!

Trend provided by Blooms by Martha Andrews
Photo courtesy of Sarah Maren Photography

Tip - Behind the Scenes Photographers

GET BEHIND THE SCENES.
Choose a photo pro whom you feel extremely comfortable with and don't mind inviting backstage. Some of the most beautiful wedding moments happen while the bride is dressing, while the family is waiting, or during the reception when the couple steals away for a kiss.
Keep your photographer aware of your whereabouts at (almost) all times.

Tip and photo provided by Sharpe Photographers

Who’s the Real Hero?


















I need some advice! How do I get my husband off Guitar Hero? There is something about this game that he loves. I understand that once you get something new, it’s exciting and fun, but this is getting old. I love music, but hearing the same song over and over and the “babe, I almost got it on expert, just one more try” line is getting old. Why can some crazy electric guitar noise and a “you rock” make him so happy? I’m going to chalk it up to entertainment value, but before long, I may have to think of a distraction strategy.

Sentimental Fool

My & my first love, my dad courtesy of The Memory Journalists.

I admit it. I'm sentimental. Downright emotional. I cry over movies, books, pictures, songs, Extreme Makeover: Home Edition (EVERY SINGLE TIME). So when it came to picking out the songs for our wedding they had to be PERFECT. They had to evoke the emotion and stop everybody in their tracks. Yes. I am ridiculous.

I searched high and low for my Father/Daughter dance song. I am totally a daddy's girl and I wanted everyone to know it. I had a one song in mind from the beginning. Because You Loved Me by Celine Dion. This song really said a lot of what I felt but it was also a song that I really associated with both my parents. So just in case I searched on. Then there was the I Loved Her First by Heartland. So sweet. Sweet, sweet, sweet. But suddenly everyone was using it and I have to be just a little different. So one random day I logged onto iTunes and they were offering me a free song. I downloaded it and found my perfect song. Your Joy by Chrisette Michele. I heart this song very, very much. I still cry every time I listen to it. It says every single thing I ever wanted to tell my first love, my father. Once I discovered the song I hid it away. I told very few people because I loved it so much I didn't want anyone to know about it. And when the time came to take my dad's hand and dance with him just one more time as his little girl I cried and laughed and cried.

My gift to my dad. A picture of us with the lyrics of Your Joy.

So if you are looking for the perfect Father/Daughter song have I got one for you. Check out the lyrics.
Your Joy
by Chrisette Michele

Walk down the sidewalk
Staring at your feet
Wishing my steps were longer
So by your sides I could keep
Hold your hand much bigger
Never wanted mine to grow
So I could always fit perfect
Inside your palms just so
No one loves me just like you do
No one knows me just like you do
No one can compare to the way my eyes fit in yours
You'll always be my father
And I'll always be your joy
Lay me on your belly
Nights when mama wasn't home
Lightning made me shiver
And you never let me feel alone
I tried to match your breathing
Beating my little heart against yours
Perfect were the nights we were sleeping
I never want to end what we are
'Cause no one loves me just like you do
And no one knows me just like you do
No one can compare to the way my eyes fit in yours
You'll always be my father
And I'll always be your joy
One day he'll come on bended knee
And ask my love away from thee
And when I give my love to him
You'll always have a place within
One day he'll come on bended knee
And ask my love away from thee
And when I give my love to him
You'll always have a place within
No one loves me just like you do
No one knows me just like you do
No one can compare to the way my eyes fit in yours
You'll always be my father
And I'll always be your joy...


Me & my dad

Getting Older

Funny when you're single that, as a woman, you never think twice about going to a doctor. We go - do we like it? No, but we go nonetheless. Is it the same for men? NOPE! I never really thought much about it, but until you try to convince your husband to go the doctor, you'll discover that they'd rather eat lead than go the doctor for any reason. Any one have any advice on how to convince your hubby to get that check up???

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Trend - Tradition Outside the Church

Couples seem to be really looking for unique locations that match their style & most often want to have their ceremony & reception in the same location…church weddings seem to almost be a thing of the past but the connection with their minister is still very important.


Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

Tip - Capture the Memories

You can’t expect your photographer to catch all those “candid” important moments if they happen as quickly as a sneeze. Remember to pause at key points, like when your dad gives you away, relish the moment. It’ll make for a better captured image.

Tip and photo provided by The Memory Journalists

Monday, February 25, 2008

Tip - Floral Themes

How do you come up with a theme?
Easy. Start with an inspiration piece. It could be as simple as a color, or as complex as your Grandmother’s lace pattern on her tablecloth. A good designer will be able to direct you towards flowers and styles that enhance your theme. It is amazing how many complete themes have come into fruition by a single inspiration piece. Brides can actually walk away and have a good picture in their mind’s-eye of the finished product. Very exciting stuff!
Tip provided by Visual Impact Designs

Trend - Sample Food Stations

Looking to personalize their wedding receptions and break away from the traditional buffet, brides are enjoying the idea of sample stations. This trend can be interpreted for every bride and groom by incorporating their favorite drinks and delights.

Some of the more popular examples include wine and cheese stations with a professional sommelier to educate guests on the wines and pairings, bruschetta bars, pasta sauté stations, and signature cocktail bars featuring different varieties. The big hit this year is the champagne bar; pick your favorite bottles of bubbly and create custom drinks with mixers such as Chambord, Midori, cranberry juice, and pineapple juice. Guests can join in on the fun by adding fresh fruits or garnishes to top off the cocktail!
However, our favorite trend is starting the honeymoon a bit early with a station dedicated to the location and cuisine of your honeymoon destination. From tropical Hawaiian treats to wintery wonderland soups, this is a special treat for your guests and a memorable way to personalize your wedding.

Trend provided by Capital City Catering
Photo courtesy of Allison Stahl Photography

A little splash of color

There is one trend that I have noticed among brides that I am in LOVE with. If only I would have thought of it! I'm talking about the beautiful, bright-colored shoes they are wearing with their wedding dress. I LOVE THIS! So to save you some time and heartache I hunted down some awesome, brightly-colored shoes just for you!
















These gorgeous shoes are by RSVP. The style is Colinne and they cost $64.95 on Zappos. (side note about Zappos; you can purchase AS MANY pairs of shoes that you want and you will get them shipped to you for free. You can also ship them back for free. This is so great if you are trying to find the perfect shoes and can't decide which one's you like.)










These shoes are FABULOUS! These gorgeous BCBGirls (style Sandy) are $99.95 on Zappos.




I think these are so adorable! And they are made by Rocket Dog, so I am sure they are super comfortable too! These Rocket Dog Spencer Lace shoes retail for $44.95 on Zappos.

I opted to wear TWO pairs of shoes. I wore these NaNa flats during the ceremony and then these Unlisted by Kenneth Cole flip flops (sorry, I was unable to find them anywhere on the net. Thus the photography by me!). They both matched my dress perfectly, but now that I think about it I shouldn't have gotten some burnt orange flip flops!

Survey Says - What Would Have Made Your Day Easier or Better?

What would have made your day
easier or better?

A wedding coordinator.
- Kate, married in 2007

A wedding planner!
- Rebecca, married in 2003

It would have been easier to have the ceremony and reception at the same location. Time was wasted in the transportation and it left less time for photography. For us, there wasn’t really a way around this since we had decided to have a church ceremony.
- Kirsten, married in 2006

More time!
- Bree, married in 2007

Our wedding day was truly wonderful – I honestly can’t imagine being happier with it. Having a coordinator made the day-of so easy for all of us (as easy as it can be!)
- Hannah, married in 2006

Photo courtesy of Allison Stahl Photography

Ignite the Flame - Something Hot In the Kitchen...Besides You

The age old adage remains: The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. There are a few sure fire ways to put a smile on your guy’s face: feeding him is one of them.

Whether you are naturally gifted or have to work at it a little, the end result is the same. Your thoughtfulness and love will show through in whatever you prepare. So maybe you don’t feel so much like a Martha Stewart. Don’t fret!

  • Try something like a simple pasta dish followed by ice cream with homemade cookies (buy pre-made dough if you have to).
  • If you’re thinking you could give Martha a run for her money, whip up a hearty beef stew and serve with crusty bread. Finish dinner with a warm fruit crisp and your man will be putty in your hands!
  • Remember to pair his favorite beverage as well; a nice Spanish Rioja or perhaps a pint of Guinness.

Men love to feel taken care of (remember girls: it’s primal for them) and a little home cooking from his lady love will be sure to light a spark between the two of you. So don the apron (and apron only if you wish) and inspire a scorching hot evening!

Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

Cloud Nine - The Blended Family

Life at Home- The Blended Family

It is challenging in itself to be a new bride, to balance the elements of life; work, home, friends, extra curricular activities, etc. Now add the one element that takes more commitment and time than any other: kids.

It can be a little tricky to adjust to the role of new bride, continue to develop your relationship with your husband, and be the available parent that you need to be.
  • Remember, children need to adjust to new situations too (just like adults), so patience is essential. They can often feel unsure of their new role in the family.
  • Reassure your children that you have enough love for every family member. You may find it helpful to point out that there will actually be more love and attention to go around with an extra parent in the house. In order to avoid feelings of being “left out” and/or the urge to compete for attention, be sure you spend one on one time with your child or children as often as you can. It is equally important for your child(ren) to spend alone time with your new husband as well, to facilitate growth in their relationship.
  • Keeping the lines of communication open between you and your child(ren) is another important task. Family meetings can be a useful tool and an appropriate venue for each member of the family to discuss problems or issues in a safe and controlled atmosphere. It is empowering for children to have a platform to identify and vocalize their concerns and will encourage open communication between everyone in your home.

In the midst of all of this change and adjustment, it is vital for you and your new husband to spend alone time together too. Taking the time to strengthen your bond will support a stable environment within the new family. Although it can seem demanding at times, blended families can be as successful as the time and patience you invest. Keep a positive attitude and allow everyone time and space to adjust. Remember, love and happiness brought your new family together…so live, love and be happy!

Photo courtesy of Allison Stahl Photography

Ask Marvin - Budget Conscious

Dear Marvin,
We are about four months away from our wedding date and as I add up the costs, I realize we're continuing to go over budget! I feel like all of the things we're spending money on are important. My parents and in-laws gave me a specific budget to start with, but some of the things we are spending additional money on are things they want. I'm worried that when it comes to paying all these vendors, I won't be able to get everyone to come through! Help!
Signed-
Penniless & In Love

Dear Penniless,
It's great to have the support of family and in-laws on your Big Day. While their intentions start out straightforward and fiscally sensible, sometimes emotions and opinions trump rational. They may not realize how they're affecting the wedding day, financially and emotionally. The best thing to do is sit down and make a list of all the things you have planned for your wedding day. From that list, you and your fiance need to discuss what is essential to make your wedding day special. Ask the same task of your parents and in-laws and then start cutting out, or minimalizing, the unnecessary items. Some of these items, you could cut down costs on by doing some of the labor yourselves. This is where the families' support will kick in to high gear! Don't be afraid to speak up or ask for help; they will appreciate your prudence.

Good Luck,
Marvin

Photo courtesy of Allison Stahl

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Trend - "Kings" Head Table

A great table or Kings table will include your wedding party and their dates.

Having a head table like this is nice for the Wedding Party and for their guests who may not know many other guests at the wedding.

Trend and photo provided by Pfeiffer Event Planning

Tip - Let's Give 'Em Something To Talk About

At the reception the guest table centerpieces are the one area of the wedding décor that will be most enjoyed by your guests. Give them something to talk about. Incorporate unexpected elements into your table décor.
  • For a modern wedding, battery operated LED lights, unusually shaped clear glass or metal vases and exotic flowers would give the table that “Wow” factor.
  • For a garden style wedding fruit and vegetables, mossy terracotta containers, live herb plants and hand crafted candles would lend a lived in and living feeling to your guest tables.
  • For a glitzy and opulent wedding, pull out all the stops by using crystals, gold or silver painted manzanita branches, strands of pearls, masses of fragrant garden style roses and faux diamonds sprinkled on the table will make your guests feel like royalty.

Tip and photo provided by Flourish

Saturday, February 23, 2008

Calling ALL Brides - Be a COVER MODEL

I just recently realized that the Cover Model contest for the next issue of Sierrastyle Weddings magazine is open to soon to be brides, but also to recent brides! So I'm blogging about it so that all 2007 brides, as well as 2008 brides, who want to be on the cover - send in your applicant form now!

Sierrastyle Weddings’ “Be Our Next Cover Model” contest is open to applicants who meet all of the following criteria:
  • Entrants must be at least 18 years of age as of November 15, 2007; and must be legal residents of the United States.
  • Entrants must be engaged as of (close of contest) March 2, 2008, and must remain engaged through March 31, 2008; OR entrants can be married and have been married
  • to their spouse prior to March 2, 2008 but not before January 1, 2007.
  • Entrants can not be professional models or TV personalities.
  • Sierrastyle may request a brief interview with entrants prior to selecting finalists – interviews will occur the week of March 2nd.
  • Three finalists of contest must be available for fitting(s) during the weeks of March 9th and/or March 16th; and photoshoot which is tentatively sheduled to take place in the greater Sacramento area in mid-late March 2008.

The Wedding Class

Check it out - The Wedding Class! Informative and helpful in planning your wedding. We will be there too to provide some extra special information.

Sierrastyle Weddings Magazine presents:

THE WEDDING CLASS

The Wedding Class offers you:
  • An intimate, sophisticated showcase of the region's top wedding professionals.
  • A complete planning binder with complimentary software to keep you organized.
  • Learn industry secrets in a variety of educational wedding classes taught by the area's premier professionals.
  • Take advantage of free offers and valuable savings from the most sought after wedding vendors.
  • Enjoy great wine and a spectacular sampling of food from Masque Ristorante, recognized as one of the best new restaurants in the U.S.
  • Limousine transportation provided by Corporate Transportation Solutions from a central location in Folsom.

Featured classes taught by top area professionals:

Looking your best on camera.
Your reception... starring YOU!
The perfect fashion for you
and your bridal party.
Get organized and stay organized...
using the wedding class planning binder.

and...

The 10 things every bride should know!


ONLY $49.00 FOR 2
That’s less than $25 per person

Tickets will be $79 Day of show – if available!
Limited to the first 60 Brides and their guests.

Preregister here now!

Trend - A Flashy Twist on Old Tradition

Don't forget your something blue!
It used to be a handkerchief, undergarments, a garter belt...things that people didn't see except you and your new husband. Amazing, original jewelry is the perfect way to display your something blue, old, new or borrowed.

Trend provided by Dynamite Weddings
Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

Tip - First Sightings

Consider your frayed nerves with only 5 minutes for portraits. More couples are taking advantage of seeing each other before the ceremony for a special few moments together, captured on camera.
Couples say that it is more intimate then seeing each other for the first time in front of 300 people. It also gives you more time with your photographer for portraits.

Tip provided by Profinish Design
Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

Friday, February 22, 2008

Trend - Fabulous Fabrics

Fabric is in, tulle is out. There really are few reasons to use tulle when you have multiple textures and colors of fabrics to choose from.

The textures and richness you get from fabrics will complete any wedding design. Consider draping fabric on the walls to change the feel of a standard banquet room or swag fabric across the church pews to give your wedding site an extra touch of elegance.

Trend provided by Arcularius Events
Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

Tip - Value in the Veil

Wear a veil…it can be simple or flowing down the back.
It will make a difference in the way you feel, from just wearing a stunningly fancy dress to truly feeling like a bride!

There is one out there that suits your style.
It makes for sensational photo opportunities & it’s a once in a lifetime day!

Tip & photo courtesy of Allison Stahl

Thursday, February 21, 2008

Rain, Rain, Go Away

As the rain pours down and the Sacramento area is hit with another storm, I started thinking about the poor couples out there who might be getting married this weekend. Here is the thing about weather and wedding days - Rain can make for a beautiful and romantic wedding - as long as you have a backup plan! If your wedding is October through May, here are some tips to follow to help ensure that your day happens without a hitch:
  1. Have umbrellas on hand for the wedding party (like the super cute polka dot Totes umbrella pictured above).

  2. If wind is in the forecast, choose a hairstyle to withstand gusts to avoid your curls being stripped away or wisps in your face.

  3. Again for wind, a tip courtesy of weather.com: Secure tiny weights to your veil to prevent it from blowing in the breeze. Fishing weights are a great option because of their small size and you can spray-paint them to match your attire.
The Weather Channel offers a great service for brides called "My Wedding Weather." You create a profile with your name, wedding date/time, up to 10 other bridal events, and 30 years of data is referenced to give you accurate information about weather patterns and predictions.

Trend - Daddy & Me

The Daddy-daughter dance is a special few moments the bride shares with her dad. By choosing the right song, it can be an unforgettable experience.
Often a pre-written and recorded message, carefully edited into that song, will bring an emotional level to the dance that is incredible.

Trend provided by Music on the Move
Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

Tip - Bright Colors, Bright Day!

Don’t be afraid to use bright colors! Weddings do not have to be in muted tones – use kiwi green ribbon on your programs or use hot pink roses in your bouquet.

The bright colors will show up beautifully in photos and add a little something extra to your special day.

Tip provided by Celebrations! Elegant Party Rentals
Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Calling all Bridezillas!


Bridezilla (a portmanteau of bride and Godzilla) is a generic term used to describe a difficult, unpleasant, perfectionist bride who leaves aggravated family, friends and bridal vendors in her wake. A bridezilla is obsessed with her wedding as her perfect day and will disregard the feelings of the family, bridesmaids and even her groom in her quest for the perfect wedding.
Answer these quick questions to find out if you have what it takes to be a Bridezilla! Tally up the points next to your answers and find out if you should be fitted for combat boots or Manolos!

Quiz courtesy of Bridezillas on WE

1. Someone objects to your marriage right before the "I dos". You:

a. Leap from the pulpit, rush down the aisle and tackle the offender (3). b. Stomp your foot and yell "Shut the h--- up!" (2). c. Cry (1).

2. You have 5 pounds left to lose before the big day. You:
a. Ambush the hottest diet guru and fly them to your home for a little one-on-one (3). b. Cut down on carbs (1). c. Try a liquid fast (2).

3. The bridal salon calls you:
a. By your first name (1). b. "That girl with the issues" (2). c. The Terminator (3).

4. Your gown is:
a. Your mothers (1). b. French couture (2). c. Stolen from a Renaissance museum in Italy (3).

5. Officiating at your ceremony is:
a. Your local clergyman (1). b. The Mayor of the city (2). c. The Pope (3).

6. Your guest list includes:
a. Your friends and family (1). b. Your entire sorority, your mothers bridge club AND your spinning class. (3) c. 150 "close" friends (2).

7. You are spending the day before your wedding:
a. Incarcerated for disorderly conduct at the hair salon (3). b. Torturing your wedding planner (2). c. At a spa relaxing. (1)

8. The day of the ceremony, your wedding ring:
a. Is on a pillow ready for presentation (1). b. At the jewelers, being exchanged for another carat (3). c. Already on your hand because it was "lonely". (2)

Your score:
19-24 - Congratulations! You're a Bridezilla! You've aced Bridezilla bootcamp, and are now the most accomplished player on the team!

13-18 - Well you've almost got a spot on team Bridezilla... but not quite. You're sort of like the water girl - you're supporting the team and you're learning a lot.

8-12 - You're just an average bride. Drop and give us twenty.

Okay, so seriously I was totally NOT a bridezilla. I promise! But I have a better understanding now of the "Bridezilla" than when I first started watching this show. I first started watching it for the pure entertainment. Yes, it is kinda funny to watch someone slowly lose their mind. It's also entertaining to try to watch sane people deal with insanity. But now? I watch out of sympathy. I watch to know that someone else at times wanted to pull out their hair. I watch because sometimes you do want to scream at the top of your lungs and kick the dresser (one girl actually did that! She's lucky she didn't break at toe!) Some of these girls don't intend to demanding and hurtful. You just get to a point of your brain about to fall out of your head. There are 1000 decisions to make and once you make those there another 100 for each! That's a lot of decisions people. Trust me. So the next time you see a Bridezilla headed your way just smile and move to the side. She is on a mission people and the steamtrain known as "wedding" stops for no woman, man or child.

Trend - Creative Favors Serving a Purpose

Using practicality in designing favors has become more commonplace. Your programs on a hot day can serve the dual purpose as fans. You can supply bottles of water with your picture on them.
The ideas are endless!

Trend provided by The Memory Journalists
Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

Tip - Notice Your Fit, Not Your Size

Remember that wedding gown samples run small so don’t get discouraged if your wedding gown size is one or two sizes bigger than what you normally wear. Remember to always select the larger size if you are between sizes.
Your gown can always be taken in; it can’t always be taken out.

Tip provided by Bella Donna Bridal
Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Trend - Personalizing Invites

Don’t forget about the envelopes! Print 'em, color 'em ... add something to 'em. Couture envelopes make a polished impression before your invitation is even opened.Add your monogram or design motif to the front or on the back flap along with your return address.

Trend provided by Stephanie J Designs
Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

Tip - Mark Your Mags

When ripping out pages in wedding magazines of “looks,” be sure to circle the specific item on the page that excites you.

Weeks later, you’ll wonder, what you were originally drawn to on that page!

Tip provided by A Day To Remember
Photo courtesy of The Memory Journalists

My Surprise Christmas Gift

By the title of this post, some may be thinking what to come is a great surprise gift. Let me warn you now, you may be a bit disappointed. What do you do when your husband gives you an OveGlove for Christmas? Because I received one, I will fill you in. You first laugh out of nervousness, then read the instructions and act like you are interested in the one paragraph about the “tool,” which include snippets like “use caution.” By default you ask, “Why did you get me this?” in hopes that the answer is nothing like “So you can cook for me.” You put it on and then realize it can go on either hand, “nifty.” You stick your hand into a candle flame and go “Hey, it really does resist the heat” until your brand new OveGlove turns a little black. Finally you start to think you could use it, maybe.

Well, in all honesty, I have used the durable hand cover and now I am actually glad I got it. First, because I think it is hilarious that my husband actually bought if for me. Second, because he went to three places to track it down. Third, because I don’t have to ruin the cute patterned oven mitts I have. Fourth, I can officially bake and cook without worrying about burns. Yeah!

Monday, February 18, 2008

Sexy Silk

What is silk and strapless with an empire waist that minimizes waistline and hips?... every ‘maids dream!! I would like to introduce you to the Karen Crossdye Dupioni Strapless dress from Ann Taylor. I came across the Ann Taylor Celebrations collection the other day and was so impressed. I hadn’t ever considered them for wedding paraphernalia but it turns out they have beautiful dresses! Plus, matching silk ties for the groomsmen and flower girl dresses. Here are some photos of their newest styles…


Don't forget the little ones...

Dear Marvin - My Two Dads

Dear Marvin,

DILEMMA! I have two dads! My mom and dad divorced when I two and my mom remarried shortly there after to my wonderful stepfather. They have been a huge influence in my life and I love them both. But who do I pick to walk me down the aisle? I don't want to hurt either of them but I want to honor them both.
Signed,
Daddy's Little Girl times TWO


Dear Daddy's Little Girl times TWO,

What a lucky gal! This is a great problem to have! I have three suggestions for you. First, walk yourself down the aisle and have both of them meet you at the end of the aisle to present you to your groom. Secondly, have your stepdad walk you halfway down the aisle and have your biological dad meet you halfway and walk you the rest of the way down. Have your stepdad wait until your father presents you to your groom and then he can take his seat at the same time your stepdad does. Last, if you have a big enough aisle have them both escort you! Either way it sounds like your day is going to be full of love!

Marvin

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