Dear Marvin,My final guest count is due to our venue in 16 days and we haven't heard from many people on our guest list. I don't want to call and remind everyone because I'm almost hoping that if I don't bring it up, some won't show. I also kind of feel like, you snooze, you lose. Is that rude?
Final Frenzy
Dear Final Frenzy,
Really, it's up to you and your fiance if you follow up with them. I appreciate your sentiment regarding "you snooze, you lose", but if those people try to rsvp late or just show up then it will just mean more headache for you. If you have a wedding website you can close the rsvp page and then guests are forced to call you if they want to rsvp. If you're not serving a plated meal you could assume they will attend and add extra appetizers. If your meals will be plated, I would suggest calling the lagging guests to make sure they don't show up and not receive a meal.
Best of luck!
Marvin
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